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50 Valentine’s Ideas That Won’t Break The Bank

February 6th, 2008 by Kyle

Valentine Gift IdeasOK guys, we have a little over a week until Valentine’s Day. Still plenty of time to come up with something special for her. I have been working on this list for awhile, many of these ideas I have done personally and my wife loved them. Some are actual ‘things’ and many are special touches that you can do to brighten the day of your special Valentine. Good luck guys, and remember, it is often the thought that counts more than a very expensive necklace with no emotional attachment behind it. Make her feel special and do the unexpected! Here we go, drum roll please:

  1. Make her a music mix with songs that remind you of her.
  2. Wash her car and leave a nice note inside.
  3. Leave stick-it notes around the house; write the things you love about her on them.
  4. Organize and clean her bathroom.
  5. Pick up the kids from school and give her some quiet time in the afternoon.
  6. Set up a bubble bath for her with candles and her favorite book.
  7. Do the laundry and put the clothes away.
  8. Clean out and organize the pantry.
  9. Make her breakfast; serve her in bed.
  10. Give her a back massage certificate. You do the massage.
  11. Vacuum the house.
  12. Dust the house.
  13. Do the grocery shopping and make dinner for her.
  14. Surprise her at work with lunch, go for a picnic.
  15. Leave a few love letters around the house.
  16. Play hooky for part of the day and spend time with her.
  17. Wear your silk red boxers and dance for her. (I never did this)
  18. Stop at Starbucks and get her favorite drink.
  19. Open the door for her all day long.
  20. Dinner date? Come to the front door and pretend it is your first date.
  21. Make her favorite dessert.
  22. Get her favorite jewelry cleaned; do it yourself. (not hard)
  23. Flirt with her all day long.
  24. Heat her towel in the dryer and have it ready when she gets out of the shower in the morning.
  25. Paint her toe nails. (Bull Durham anyone?)
  26. Organize the 2 messiest drawers or cupboards in the house that drive her crazy.
  27. Re-enact your first date as close as possible.
  28. Go see a matinee movie together.
  29. Clean out the refrigerator and put her favorite Jamba Juice smoothie inside.
  30. Finish that “honey-do” list that is 6 months old!
  31. Opt for her favorite plant instead of flowers that will have to be thrown out in a few days.
  32. Write her a love poem.
  33. Give her extra time to herself; take the kids to allow this to happen.
  34. Leave her love messages on her cell phone and home phone.
  35. Make her a homemade Valentines Card out of red construction paper.
  36. Rent a movie that you would typically not like, but she would. (Anything with Matthew McConaughey!)
  37. Use red lipstick and write something romantic on the bathroom mirror.
  38. Take her on date and not tell her anything about it. Take her to where you first met. (if possible)
  39. Set up a foot soak for her; play her favorite music while she soaks.
  40. Give the kids a bath and get them in bed by yourself; give her the night off.
  41. Wash the dishes, load the dishwasher, don’t let her lift a finger.
  42. Buy 3 of her favorite magazines and put them by the bathtub with some candles.
  43. Clean the toilets. The one job she hates more than anything else!
  44. Get some paint swatches and offer to paint a room in the house how ever she wants.
  45. Vacuum out her car.
  46. Give her a foot massage.
  47. Fill her car with red and white balloons. Blow them up yourself.
  48. Hide her favorite candy bars around the house. (Don’t hide them really well!)
  49. If she pays the bills, do it for her, and then balance the checkbook.
  50. And last but not least, combine any variation of the above 49. For example, clean the toilet while you are giving her a foot massage. Oh wait, bad example, but you know what I mean! Have fun with it and be creative!

Feel free to add your favorite Valentine’s Day gift ideas!

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  • 1 Mrs. Micah Feb 6, 2008 at 1:48 pm

    Lots of great ideas. Are you going to do all 50? ;)

  • 2 Kyle Feb 6, 2008 at 1:51 pm

    Thanks Mrs Micah. I got my eye on 3 or 4 this year!

  • 3 Consuela Feb 7, 2008 at 4:42 pm

    Bounced off from Uncommon Cents…

    Wow, those are some really cool ideas. I especially like #17! LOL! Would it be okay if I were to borrow this and post it on my own blog; credits to you of course? Thanks :)

    Consuela

  • 4 Kyle Feb 7, 2008 at 6:57 pm

    Consuela, of course that would be OK! Thanks for stopping by. And let me know if you want to see pics of my red silk boxers!!! :-)

  • 5 Consuela Feb 7, 2008 at 7:42 pm

    LOL! Sure…why not…and pose sexily now ;P
    And I couldn’t help re-reading the list again…boy #50 just doesn’t sound right…at all….hahahaha

    ohh, Happy Chinese New Year! :)

  • 6 Stephanie Feb 7, 2008 at 7:59 pm

    Your wife is a lucky woman! I will be pointing my husband to this list! :)

  • 7 Kaye Feb 13, 2008 at 1:42 pm

    Thanks for the help! I have added this postto a list of my Valentine ideas on my blog.

  • 8 Dnaiel Feb 14, 2008 at 8:40 am

    Question: why would you not do many of these any normal day? Do the laundry and put the clothes away. Vacuum, dust the house.

    These really only work if you’ve done absolutely nothing for your partner for the last year. Most of these are simple consideration for others and I’d hope one would do these every day without a second thought.

  • 9 Kyle Feb 14, 2008 at 9:04 am

    @ Daniel, if you work like me, it is a time issue. Not enough time in the day. That is not to say I don’t do anything because that is not the case. I make breakfast every morning, fold and put away clothes, vacuum, cook, clean the bathrooms, quite often, especially on weekends. The point of this list is to do the unexpected. If the examples you brought up are not the unexpected in your relationship try #17.

  • 10 Bernard Ng Feb 15, 2008 at 9:48 pm

    I am sticking with a bouquet of flowers!

  • 11 hugowolf Feb 24, 2008 at 7:06 am

    I mean, come on…Does it have to be a special day so that you wash the dishes, give the children a bath or vacuum the car? clean nout the pantry of cook dinner? What men are you anyway? This must be done in a natural manner anot as a “V-gift” …Poor article

  • 12 Kyle Feb 24, 2008 at 8:36 am

    hugowolf, once again the point of the list is to do the unexpected. Lets be real here, not all men do the things you mentioned on a regular basis. If they do, well then find something else on the list that would qualify as unexpected.